It's my anniversary month! I wanted to put up this post closer to my anniversary, but this particular post has taken me months to create and it has been delayed. But it's still May, still my anniversary month, so here it is!
No, I did not document my first full year of marriage the way I probably should have. But I have worked hard in the past year to show my love for my husband and to build our relationship. We've been through trials, we've been through changes, things weren't always the way we thought they would be. But we learned how marriage works together and marriage has been the greatest blessing of my life. Note: Just because I wrote all these down doesn't mean I'm perfect and follow every last tip, I'm not perfect and still have things to work on.
(PS, there is a very good chance the pictures won't all show up, I apologize for that but I don't think I'm going to take the time to fix them if they end up not showing. I'm trying to get ones that work but just know that there's a possibility of a blank picture. I also apologize for any grammatical issues, but again, not going through and fixing them.)
So, here is a years worth of marriage tips, tricks, and advice... 365 days worth... A lot... As in, the longest blog post of my life... yeah... you don't have to read it all in one sitting.
- Don't forget the kisses everyday!!
- When you burn the food, laugh.
- "Oh money, where did you go? Maybe we should keep track..."
- Changes happen... again and again and again and again.
- I think even grownups need a time-out sometimes.
- "How dare you do this! I'm so mad at you! [Insert How I Met Your Mother Quote here]" Laughter ensues, argument over.
- "I want to do this." "And I want to do this." Always make decisions together.
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- Relax and take a trip, get away from being an adult.
- "Aww man, we eat out too much I'm getting fat!" You put on the weight together, take it off together. Gym time together can be super fun!
- Balancing school, work, homework, and life in general is difficult, but always, always, ALWAYS make your spouse your main priority.
- Sometimes sacrifices have to be made.
- When you watch a couple enough on TV, sometimes you start acting like them, and there is nothing wrong with that.
- Date nights become fewer, but sometimes that makes them all the more special.
- Your in-laws can be family too and you can learn to love them as much as your own family.
- Sometimes Little Caesars Pizza is the best "going out to eat" can offer.
- Just hold your spouse for a minute a day. Just hold them and let them know you'll always be there for them.
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- Love is meant to make you feel happy and wonderful. Accept it.
- Stop looking for the negative, every day find another positive.
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- Have confidence in your spouse and they will return the favor.
- Make a cake, celebrate!
- How do two people use so many dishes???
- "I don't want to clean." "Me neither." "Let's make a game out of it!!!"
- Act like a child sometimes. If it's real love, your spouse will allow it.
- You don't have to be exactly the same and like all the same things all the time... that just sounds exhausting.
- A Disney movie sing-along and some popcorn is an excellent date night.
- Marrying a fisherman means fish for dinner.
- And marrying a man who can cook fish very well is a good idea... because I dislike cooking. So I'm so grateful Chris can do it and do it well.
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- Sometimes you have to remind your spouse how sexy you can be. And slutty. But you're married so it's okay.
- Car rides can be the absolute funnest thing with your spouse! Sing-alongs, car games, and long talks. Best thing ever!
- Take time to step out of your comfort zone and do something the other one likes. Don't hide in your shell.
- My husband is a soccer player and he's obsessed with the sport. He can tell you almost all the players in the EPL, he always knows the most current stats and news. Sometimes it can be hard with him always looking up soccer news on his phone, but when I go to his soccer games I can see that it's all just for the love of the game and it's so incredible seeing how happy it makes him. I'm proud to support my husband in something he loves.
- Cooking together, making messes together, all means having fun together.
- Hold hands. Be an otter.
- Make your spouse feel beautiful... or handsome, pretty, ravishing, etc.
- Just because you're married doesn't mean basic manners go out the window. Say yours please's and thank you's.
- Take care of your spouse, "for better or for worse, in sickness and in health."
- Remind your spouse why you love them. Never let them forget it.
- RESPECT. It's not dead.
- Make couple friends. Eat dinner together, bond over movies and games.
- "How can I help? What do you need?" ...are some of the greatest questions you can ask your spouse.
- Spend as much time together as you can. He's going to the hardware store? Join him! Hold his hand as you walk through the aisles.
- Clean the car together and get in a water fight. Fun!
- Always look for ways to help. Helping others is incredibly important.
- "I love you" everyday. Every. Single. Day.
- Let your spouse become your life. It's the greatest feeling in the world.
- "Nice butt." {wink wink} Let your spouse feel loved and sexy.
- Laughter is the best medicine, especially in marriage.
- Yes, you may be married for forever, but never let a single day go by without being grateful for your marriage.
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